Crashing issues
If your servers gonna keep dying, I'd advise you to take the penalties off. Of course, the 2nd time crashing the lobby definitely made me get off but for me to be penalized for it is seriously an issue. I can't be the only one experiencing this right now
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I'm not having any crashing issues have you checked your ISP/done a Traceroute?
There is definitely an issue with the servers. I'm getting 200 ping every game and pushed to main menu after every game with a disconnection error.
Standard "dedicated server crash" every few games, don't host your games on a big pile of Nintendo DSes, BHVR.