dead by daylight bug with friend(s)

thedoorofhell

If invite my friend, and he joins, i dont see that, if only i ready even if my friend is invisibly in the lobby, i just start and i after get send to random solo queue lobby's

If my friend invites me, and i join, i see him, but i cant see him ready'ing up, even if he pressed ready, if game start with me ready'ing and friend invisibly ready'ing, we again get send to rando lobby

So, i cant see my friends activity (like, joining, ready'ing, changing items), but they do see that.

But!

i CAN see random people activity not like friend(s), and can normally start the game, so help me very much, i want to enjoy the game with friends together!!

tried on epic games and steam accounts